this past week i have shared a wicked secret with a friend or two. Not a really "bad" secret....we're talking fantasy secrets. Sure, a fantasy is just a fantasy, but at what point do the friends who like and respect you think less of you because something truely wicked pushes all your hot buttons?
I'm not sure what type of reactions i expected.
- Would the guy fall into the fantasy roll just to please me? I would hate that.
- Would he laugh...could. Ok, yes, I think he laughed
- Would it trigger some hot button in him? the preferred reaction of course:)
- Would it repulse him...Dammit, honest to god.. this has happened to me before.
- Would he still respect me?
Arg...what to do.